What are women looking for in a man?
Until you believe it
Until you believe it

Until you believe you are worthy of love, no one can love you the right way, it will never be real to you; it will only be a distorted mirror the prison of your mind.

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Why dating a younger man might not be such a bad idea
Why dating a younger man might not be such a bad idea

Social expectations tell us that the man we’re dating must be older and taller than us - remember, you must be shorter than the man of your dreams even when you’re wearing high heels. But in real life, not every woman wants to wear high heels and not everyone cares if they’re taller or older than the man they’re dating.

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If life is too hard on you, remember these
A woman over 3o
A woman over 3o

A woman over 3o might hold back a little - her confidence is shaken since she’s been through a lot of heartache and bad experiences as too many muddy feet have trodden on her heart. She hoped for more but got so little. Fairy tales don’t exist in real life. In real life, a woman in her thirties tries to be more intentional but might not realize she’s closing herself down emotionally in the process. Sounds familiar?

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It’s time for real men
It’s time for real men

Women are not after bad boys. Neither do we dream of adult-size, emotionally distant, immature, anti-commitment man-boys pulling our hair or lifting up our skirts like they do in school. We’re not after a free ride on an emotional roller coaster with all its highs and lows and all the adrenaline rush that comes with it.

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Why is dating is so damn hard?
Why is dating is so damn hard?

I’m starting to think dating requires a set of special skills - skills I apparently do not possess. Presumably dating in real life looks something like the mixture of romantic novels and… well, reality. I do believe in real life fairy tales but I have never experienced anything like that, ever.

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How to break your heart over and over again
How to break your heart over and over again

Many times we don’t even see this, but the only person who stands in the way of our happiness is us. Only we have the power to do so. It’s like a crime story – you never suspect the actual perpetrator in the beginning of the story. You suspect everyone but them. It’s the same in real life. After all, who would suspect themselves? Why would the victim be the offender?

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