4 major signs he’s just not that into you
We all want to be love and be loved, humans are wired like that. Dating should be fairly easy: you’re looking for the one, you find that person and you start building your life together. But what if something just feels off?
Something you can’t put your finger on. But it makes you feel uneasy and scared. And no matter how hard you try to deny it, something’s just not right… Well, that something might be the fact that he’s just not that into you.
1 He only talks to you about sex
If all that comes out of his mouth is what, when and where he’d do to you, he’s not that into you. Not initiating or participating in meaningful conversations is definitely a sign. Well, at least he’s being honest and he’s not trying to deceive you. He’s straightforward, you gotta give him that.
2 He’s always “busy”
When you’re trying to get to know someone, it’s perfectly fine if he’s always busy - he had probably made plans before he met you, but seeing how much he can actually squeeze into his day must make you think when he’s always busy when it comes to you. If he has the time to grab something to eat with his friends or buy presents for an upcoming birthday party or go for a ride after a busy day at work but can never make it work with you, it’s time for you to move on.
3 You don’t know any of his friends
Not knowing his friends and family is clearly a sign. Meeting up and having fun without committing to you is what it looks like: he likes you but not enough to think long-term so don’t be surprised if he can’t be bothered to introduce you to his friends.
4 He doesn’t make plans
If he’d never make plans for something that’s let’s say in 4 weeks time and has no idea what to say when you try to do that, it means he’s not planning ahead - well, at least not with you. He might get bored before that so why would he make such long-term plans? Or he might be too quick to say yes simply because it’s hard to say no sometimes...
These signs might not mean anything in your case but if two or more are true for the guy you’re seeing, it’s time to consider the fact that he’s just not that into you.
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