Why should you give someone a second chance? Because it will give you a peace of mind. A long-term relationship is an investment: an investment into a life we made with another person, with a person with whom we experience the security that comes with commitment and real intimacy.
Simple things can get very complicated if people start lying to each other. Relationships are meant to be simple but lies can unleash demons we never knew existed. Lies might not seem that harmful in the beginning, but the truth is lies have the power to destroy lives.
In high-performance cultures, we constantly feel pressured to do well. We can buy, download or check everything in seconds and there’s an app for everything. If something is not Instagram-worthy, we feel down – but there’s nothing a bit of editing can’t fix, am I right? After all, who would want something less than perfect out there?
It is inevitable for two people in a long term relationship to shape each other: we smooth each other like pebbles of the sea. The smooth melding of the two people create harmony: there is nothing rough to the feel, your fingers cannot detect any raggedness. And nothing can disrupt this harmony.
Women need men to be pearl divers: men must be able to tell the difference between a real woman and fake ones. There will always be men who are fooled by the beauty of imitation pearls, it is very easy to be deceived by looks.
Women need men to be pearl divers: men must be able to tell the difference between a real woman and fake ones. There will always be men who are fooled by the beauty of imitation pearls, it is very easy to be deceived by looks.
I must admit, I wasn’t strong enough for you. I didn’t know you must face your demons; only you can do that. I would do anything for you but it would all be for nothing. You must overcome your own darkness.
