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Your attitude makes all the difference

We’ve been through a lot, you and I. But we’re here. It wasn’t easy but we made it. I know that no relationship is perfect and I’m okay with that.

I now believe that the severity of a situation depends on your attitude. There are truly severe problems in life but often times problems present themselves so that we would overcome them together. You and I. And then, your attitude makes all the difference.

It’s not necessarily about resolving an issue, more often than not, it’s about us working together and letting our respect for each other grow.

When it comes to seeing the glass half full or empty, I always choose to see it full. It doesn’t change the situation but it changes my attitude. Bad attitude changes the most beautiful moments into something bitter.

Planning a wedding, moving in together, taking a vacation – a bad attitude poisons all these experiences. You must learn to laugh about that bikini you left at home or the fact that you tripped in your gown… Do not let these ruin your memories of the day.

You can’t change the situation by being positive but you’ll be married either way; you can’t go back for your bikini and you’ll end up living with that person even if you did it all with a bad attitude but isn’t it much better to laugh about these issues rather than feel doomed?

So just try to have a laugh about it. Don’t get me wrong, you should do everything in your power to fix the problem but sometimes things can’t be fixed. But your bad attitude can.

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