What type of attraction leads to an all consuming love? And what is it that you’d better avoid if you don’t want to spend the next month sobbing?

All species have their unique signals for mate attraction. We call them courtship displays. Dolphins dance around their mates in order to exhibit their desire, great crested grebes present their mates with fish. But what about us? What do we do when someone catches our eye?

Did you attract him or did you invite him in? What’s the difference? It’s so easy to say that you attract the wrong guys: the bad guy, the egoistic one, the married one, the cheater, the loser, the one who brings you down or the abuser. Men come and go, making their marks on your soul; some linger, some try to come a little too close, others march in with dirty feet.

It is said that a creative power holds all or moments and the Universe wants to help us live a more abundant life so that we could live a happy life. If this is true, you might need to think about why your dreams haven’t yet come true. Did you really do all you could? It is easier to blame it all on the law of attraction, or the lack thereof, than to admit we might have failed to use it effectively.