A woman over 3o might hold back a little - her confidence is shaken since she’s been through a lot of heartache and bad experiences as too many muddy feet have trodden on her heart. She hoped for more but got so little. Fairy tales don’t exist in real life. In real life, a woman in her thirties tries to be more intentional but might not realize she’s closing herself down emotionally in the process. Sounds familiar?

Women are not after bad boys. Neither do we dream of adult-size, emotionally distant, immature, anti-commitment man-boys pulling our hair or lifting up our skirts like they do in school. We’re not after a free ride on an emotional roller coaster with all its highs and lows and all the adrenaline rush that comes with it.

Your eating habits are a projection of your attitude to life, your state of mind and your emotional needs. It is very common to feel hunger when you’re actually feeling ignored, unloved, unwanted or neurotic but you must know that, in these cases, your desire for food is not rooted in unsatisfied physical needs. Other reasons for overeating might be boredom, heart ache, stress, frustration or a feeling of emptiness inside.

Some women attract bad boys like it’s their job. Emotionally unavailable, depressed, unfaithful… you name it. Do you feel like men keep breaking your heart and you’re tired of them? You don’t even know why but you always end up with the same problems; and you feel like you’re never going to meet a nice guy? Is there a reason for trying to find happiness with the wrong guy?